I read this recently article from Time.Com, Social Media: Sex, Alcohol and Oversharing and on this Friday morning, as we look forward to the weekend, I wonder how many of us are “oversharing.” Hopefully those of you who are job seekers understand the line between what is appropriate for social media and what is not. People ARE looking — when I’m hiring, I’m not sure that I’m necessarily looking at people’s facebook account — although I’m for sure looking at people’s LinkedIn. But… just because I’m not looking doesn’t mean that others on the interview panel or other co-workers aren’t. Same is true anyone really — be mindful of what you share, who you tag (“where you tag” if you’re using locations), and who you share it with.
On a personal note re: oversharing — IF I know YOU as a real person outside of social media — then I really don’t mind. Likely its something that you would have told me in person anyways – and I’m probably already used to the “TMI” affect — we’re friends and we’ve already established that relationship. I know a person who gave a very detailed account of the birth of her child (DETAILED!) — but she doesn’t do it very often and it was in the spirit of information sharing for other expecting mothers or those who were thinking about it. I think of it as a way of connecting with others and trying to share a common experience.. and to show a sign of trust.
Ask yourself: Is your online persona an accurate reflection of you from the POV of a close friend? a total stranger? What does your social media profile SAY about YOU? Friends AND strangers DO make a judgement call about who you are once they look at your social media outlets — once it out there, its out there.
What do you think of Social Media Oversharing? TMI or just people being authentic?
Making the HR connection, yours, the girl in HR (TGIF!)
There it is. On your Facebook feed: a picture of a tall, clear glass full of what looks like a red smoothie. “That looks good,” you think. And then you read the caption: “Mommy’s First Placenta Shake. It tastes like heaven. I put lots of pineapple, orange and mango sorbet. Yummmm!”
Congratulations: you’re a victim of an extreme social-media overshare. Maybe your annoying neighbor told everyone about his appendectomy. Or perhaps you sister posted too much about her attempt to conceive Baby No. 3. Either way, you’re surrounded by people who blab their business online — and it’s happening more and more